Friday, January 23, 2009

fit in

I think most girls find a common thing to stay 'in'.It's hard. I adjust myself a lot to be and fit in into the group that i am today.Some people consider it as adapting.But what actually differs adapting and force yourself to adapt? We have so many or in fact too many reasons why we want to stick and glued with certain group. I did and one of the reasons is because of the friendship thing. We never want to be alone. Friend is like everything. Of course way different with spouse or your dog..just whatever..

My sole respect goes for a person who could stand alone and go on.It is easy to say, yet hard to be accomplished. Not everything that we can let go and move forward. Sometimes, things got its own sentimental value, your attention and your life tagged with it. It requires strength and a big heart.

In certain 'fragile' thing, I'd tried to be out of dominant and stand up.Well, i did it.And you know what, it feels sucks.Too bad. I questioned myself a lot, Should i do that, should it be done that way, what about others, did I being mean? that okay..and all the stupid mind came across..

You think i feel happy that way??So much to fit in..

Thursday, January 22, 2009

How many smile do you have?

Smile!You're in candid camera.!..okey..that's a common one
But have you ever wonder and ask yourself how many smile do you have and what makes it so?..

I have few smiles that i notice in myself, i think all of us have it too. For instance i have one smile meaning i agree, my whatever smile, my 'shut up and stop it' smile and so on.Well, the one i really like is a smile when i see someone i like..ngee..just like you doooo...

Whatever it is, smile is the world eighth wonders and the easiest gift to others. Nobody hates smile except for the harassment purposes.Eeeuuu..nasty..Counting a girl's smile is always a typical way to approach her.Did anyone watch 'win a date with tad Hamilton'?..well, you'll know..There's a smile that i love most, and it is from my late grandma, she has the loving adorable smile..and i miss that for such a while.And there's also a smile that i can't wait to see, it is from my dad. A smile from fierce, serious man..hoho..rare but unforgettable.

Below, I include some cool facts that you should know..

1. Smiling Lowers Blood Pressure. (Well now, it could. If not yours, mine.)

2. Smiling makes others want to be around you. (So be careful who you give the smiles to, if you get my drift.)

3. Smiling triggers hormone production. (I don't know that for sure myself but I read it and thought it sounded good enough to try, so if you do it and find it to be true, please let me know what happened if you can legally talk about it.)

4. Smiling is a good facial exercise. (Trust me, I've seen some faces who could use exercise. Yes?)

5. Smiling is Contagious. (Finally a good contagious disease you can get on the plane with and not be arrested if you spread it around. Who knew?

I write this article because i realized that i don't smile much enough nowadays..busy day..hectic it..just crap..huhu..

So, let us smile together..lalala~ and the world will smile with you!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

just drop by..


laughter the best medicine

sit back and chill...

Q: I run over fields and woods all day. Under the bed at night I sit not alone. My tongue hangs out, up and to the rear, awaiting to be filled in the morning. What am I?
A: A shoe.

Q: What can run but never walks, has a mouth but never talks, has a head but never weeps, has a bed but never sleeps?
A: A river.

Q: A certain crime is punishable if attempted but not punishable if committed. What is it?
A: Suicide.

Q: What goes around the world but stays in a corner?
A: A Stamp.

Q: I’m light as a feather, yet the strongest man can’t hold me for much more than a minute. What am I?
A: Breath.

Q: What gets wetter and wetter the more it dries?
A: A towel.

Q: I am the black child of a white father, a wingless bird, flying even to the clouds of heaven. I give birth to tears of mourning in pupils that meet me, even though there is no cause for grief, and at once on my birth I am dissolved into air. What am I?
A: Smoke.

Q: I’m where yesterday follows today, and tomorrow’s in the middle. What am I?
A: A dictionary.

Q: I’m the part of the bird that’s not in the sky. I can swim in the ocean and yet remain dry. What am I?
A: A shadow.

:edited from~funnyandjokesdotcom~

Sunday, January 11, 2009

what do you want in your life

Salam and welcome.After a long hour responding to questions and comments on the current event that is happening right now, i finally have the time to write my new post here.I just want to tell you how much i feel sad about the war that is happening and as a human being, lets pray for the peace..

So for today's topic, i would like to talk about passion.What drives you in your life and how much you dedicate yourself into it?Let's talk about interest.Teenagers often develop many interest in life,( some might prefer it as hobbies) while they grow up.So many interests in life makes the focus divides.We claimed to love to do so many things and yet forget to instill passion and dedication to it.We are not clear about what we really want to do in our lives and putting efforts to it.

Yet, almost all of us living in the trial phase, where we try so many things and hoping for the time to decide will comes.Nevertheless, i had my time and i believe in some occasions, i still living in the phase.It's cool to be able to do all the things but it is more cool to do it well.No matter what and how much you want, every single thing need to be respected and done well.Just be fair and enjoy..

In our culture, study well is what the students (and parents) hope and passion about.In university, it is almost the same, because most want a high CGPA.Life is not about exams and marks.It's how you live your life.Having a passion triggers my life everyday.It forces a person living positively.Even passion about the life itself is worth to look for.

My passion is more on giving my best through writing.Advices, opinions and things like that.I passion about photography too.However, there's nothing more interesting in this world than my pc.hehe..i guess you should know.
Passion is not a hobby.It is what you want in your life.I'm dreaming of having my own production house, and did my interests suit my dream??

Thursday, January 8, 2009

do you believe in 'best friend'?

Welcome again.Today, I would like to talk about best friend.This topic comes to my interest as since two days before, i managed to find my 'lost-friends' from school via Internet and pals thread.I am so happy to 'meet' them again and it reminds me of my time back to school.Some of them are even my best buddies from my primary school and continued to the secondary school.We are like best friend as it should be, eating together during recess, waiting for the bus at porch, gossipping,and those such thing.

Back to the topic, I was once a person who believed in the term 'best friend'.For me, best friend is like a close person that we hang out with, often talk to, and share everything with.It's kinda like that.Togetherness..if i can use this word.But now, I realized that, i don't have best friend in my life.I have no one that I share everything with, or talk to all the time, throughout my life.

And hey,,..I DO have close friends and cool buddies that come along with me, those who share the same table at eatery, same row in cinema seats, same jokes that we laughed at..and these people are amazing.It's just that the group sometimes different each time.The group is based on my environment.Flexible.

I'm talking this based on my experience.Maybe before this, i just confused the difference between close friend and best friend.Well, if you have a best friend, truly a best friend, consider yourself lucky!

Nevertheless, i am the believer in friendship forever.A good tight of relation between friends will be everlasting.I am sure you realized this too.Even if you lost contact with her or him for quite some time, you both can still talk together when meeting again.It' s a wonderful feeling..and I just feel it two days before!

Monday, January 5, 2009

on my mark..

Living in this millennium era, communication media has become one of the greatest influence towards life.We are no longer depending on tomorrow newspaper or tonight news broadcast to know the latest news or event that happened around us.Just use your finger and click the mouse, the news come to us just in a minute of time.Internet has it all.Just like they say, the world is just a click away...

Being a person that loves writing, blog has given me a golden option to express my thoughts and opinions on certain topic or just anything.I remember myself writing a note, a letter on a piece of paper to my friends just to tell them how i live my day , that day.It was back at my school time, when blog is not a phenomena yet.Well, I do still keep all the notes and letters that I received, and for me..that is my memory.

However, even I am a person who prefers the conventional writing, there's nothing wrong to try this new approach because this is such a new experience.Sharing my thought through writing is one thing that i want to do and doing it digitally with blogging....AWESOME!